Every day, before you go out of the house or hotel room, ask yourself this question, “Do I have a burning desire to succeed and have I a set of written goals for today in order to stay on track and be successful”?

It is critical that before you “take off” down the runway that you have checked to be sure everything is functioning right in the most important territory, your mind! Many times you have heard the statement “it’s all in your mind!”. Well, that is a big factor in your success. If you don’t have your thinking right, then probably all else will be at risk. If you were in a commercial aircraft going at full speed down the runway, you don’ want the pilot thinking about his vacation in the next week. You want his or her full attention on the task at hand, fully expecting to get airborne and on to the scheduled destination. In fact, both the pilot and co-pilot have gone through extensive checklists prior to leaving the gate and prior to roll-out for the takeoff as well. They have made sure all is right.

If you have developed a habit of checking in with yourself before you take off, you will insure that you are headed in the right direction.

So many times we get distracted by issues of family, money, job stress and time constraints that we forget to check in with ourselves to be sure that we are “ready for takeoff”. It take only a short time to develop a checklist for every day. Sit down and write out the things you need to get up-to-speed with before you start.

Ask yourself:

Do I have a desire to succeed today?
Am I positive and expecting good things?
Have I practiced my presentation and do I have all the information I need?
Have I firmly implanted in my mind that everyone I meet today is a prospect for my ideas, service or product?
Can I, for just one day, do all the things I need to do to be successful. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow is a long way off. Today is all I have.

You can add questions to the checklist as it fits your situation. The key is to check with yourself every day to insure that your thinking is right. If your thinking is right, then the universe will step in to help you insure your success. I remember one of my mentors told me that good luck is all around but only will attach itself to those who are ready to use it. I believe he was right.

Now that every convenience known to man is available with the help of technology, it is much easier to fall into the trap of leading a sedentary lifestyle. Instead of climbing a couple of flights of stairs, you use the elevator.

Instead of getting up from the couch to change the channel while watching television, you use the remote. Rather than walking a few blocks when you need to get to work, you take a cab or drive your car instead. It is much easier to find an excuse not to exercise because of these things which are readily available.

However, if you want to veer away from such a physically inactive existence, having a healthy eating diet and getting regular exercise is a must. It may sound easier said than done, and you may find excuses to put it off. But sooner or later, you would have to do it if you would not like your health to suffer in the long run.

How to Get a Head Start in Your Healthy Eating Diet and Exercise Program

Healthy diet and exercise are the key points to living a generally healthy lifestyle. Even if you do not have excess pounds to shed, being thin but inactive may also lead you to have health problems.

The key is to create a balance between having a healthy diet, getting a head start on a good exercise program - and you will be on your way towards leading a non-sedentary lifestyle.

Here are a few tips on how you can have an excellent healthy eating diet program:

• Keep a food journal.

It doesn’t matter whether you are using the good old pen-and-paper routine or if you are using an online tool to track the calories of the food that you are eating. A food journal helps you keep a close watch on your diet.

With this, you can check whether you are including an item from each essential food group. It controls your urge to have unnecessary cravings, and the mere activity of keeping a food journal will teach you the responsibility of having healthier eating habits.

• Know what you should avoid.

Anything taken in excess may actually be bad for your health. Moderate your alcohol consumption. When cooking, reduce the salt, fats, preservatives and artificial colouring in your meals. See to it that your sugar consumption and carbs consumption is just enough.

• Know which foods you should eat more.

As you may already know, fruits and vegetables should be consumed daily. Drink healthy beverages such as fresh fruit juices and green tea - instead of coffee, cola or sugar-based drinks.

Exercising Tips

Now that you have a healthy eating plan, the next thing that you should do is to have a good exercise plan. You do not even need to hire a personal trainer for this.

Start with brisk walking, jogging, a round of tennis or badminton, swimming - any sport that you enjoy, which will work out all your muscles is the best way to go. It’s even better if you can have a friend along with you while doing these physically strenuous activities, it will be fun and beneficial for you both!

At the end of the day, what you need to do to have a healthy eating diet and a good exercise program is to actually make it happen. It all starts with your determination: if you decide that you would like to lead a healthier lifestyle, then what else is preventing you from doing so? Follow these tips and be on your way towards a healthier and better version of you.

Have you ever truly stopped to think about what all this “Going Green” is about? Well, it never really occurred to me, until I was introduced to a company that has been providing naturally based products for over 20 years, just how “Going Green” would change my life. When I converted my home over to products that contain no harsh chemicals and that are environmentally safe, not only did I see the change physically, but it gave me a peace of mind. I truly feel good about helping the environment and I feel like I am being an even better mother and wife to my family for providing items in the home that are healthier.

My husband is a health inspector for the United States Army. He takes great pride in keeping our home clean and generally he has taken on all the duties of cleaning and dusting and the like. I know what you are thinking; I am truly a blessed woman not to have to have this as a responsibility. Well, generally when he would clean the house he would wear gloves to protect his hands to use the chemically based products that we would buy at the local stores and like a good wife, I would just let him. Now that we use naturally based products with no harsh chemicals I have taken it upon myself to clean. The first time I used the products was strictly for testing purposes. I never truly intended on making it a habit of cleaning the house myself. I wanted to see if these “no harsh chemical” products were really effective. I wanted to see if they really cleaned like they said they would. To my surprise, they did! So I continue to clean, even though I know that my husband would gladly do it. I enjoy knowing that I can clean the tub, and the other areas of the house, and know that I am not breathing in harsh chemicals and I don’t have to wear gloves to protect my hands. I don’t mind telling you that my husband is pretty darn excited about it too! I never thought that I would volunteer to do the cleaning when I didn’t have to, but now I truly don’t mind.

Our family didn’t only convert to natural based cleaning products, we use naturally based vitamins, dental hygiene products, skin care products and the list goes on. This company provides more than 350 products to choose from. I truly am a customer for life. I no longer purchase my laundry detergents , cleaning products or pain relievers from the local stores, I have them shipped to me directly and save money by doing this! I enjoy introducing others to this ‘new’ way of life. I love telling people of another option to buy items that we use every day that are healthier for our families and safer for our homes. There’s no coming up with more money but simply switching stores. My new lifestyle helps the environment and saves me money. I feel like I am doing my part when I am purchasing environmentally friendly products. If we all get this notion, together we can make a difference! What makes this an even sweeter deal is that the company sends me a “thank you” check for introducing others to the products. It’s a win, win situation!

Make an easy and healthy decision for your family. Change your lifestyle, Go Green! Ask me how!

Small talk, for many people, can be a difficult undertaking, whereas for others it’s as easy as tying their shoes. Of all the conversational styles however, mundane conversation is the most difficult to negotiate. What do I talk about? This is the basic question we ask ourselves when first meeting someone. Another part of the dilemma is that in order to meet someone new we have to engage in simple conversation with them first, before the interaction can develop into a friendship. So, if you want to meet someone new you will have to initiate day to day conversation. Here are some common small talk mistakes to avoid.

Many people, wanting to engage in light conversation with another, fear that they will be boring. And boring you might be, but it is better to take a chance on being boring than not trying at all. If you don’t try you’ll never know. Don’t worry about charming the pants off someone. Rather focus your attention on meeting them. Let go of all your preconceived notions about how another will respond to you. If they don’t respond in a positive way, oh well. That is their problem, not yours. They are the ones missing out on you.

The most important thing whenever trying to initiate a simple chat with another person is to approach that person with a smile, and maybe even a hand shake. Smiles are a world-renowned ice-breaker that opens the door to practically every conversation. Smiles soften people. A handshake mixed with a smile lets the other know you are no threat. A smile sends a message of comfort to the other. A handshake sends the message of sincerity.

Take a moment to reflect on the last time you met someone for the first time. Perhaps that reflection is upon a job interview. The interviewer and yourself greeted each other with a smile and a hand shake before walking into his or her office. Not only was this an act of professionalism, but it was also an ice-breaker. Both your prospective employer and yourself relaxed more after this initial greeting. Apply this same principle to every time you initiate an interaction.

Another small talk mistake not to make is not paying attention to your body language as you make your approach. Body language is very important in every interaction, especially when becoming involved in a new relationship. We all notice the interests of another in many situations, and when see that person approach we are looking at their body language. That body language sends us signals and messages of which we begin to evaluate. And yours does too! Become aware of your body language. Good body language will get you better results than poor body language.

Asking close ended questions is a big mistake. The answer should be obvious. A closed question gets a dead-end response. And once you get a dead end response you will be standing there trying to recover and come up with something else.

Not listening is another small talk mistake. Light conversation can be fun, interesting and engaging, but it requires one to listen, even if the light conversation may seem boring. If it seems boring keep listening, because small talk has a tendency of taking turns. Conversations can go off into a variety of places and never sticks to any one for a long period of time. The more you listen the more involved you are able to become in the ensuing chat. And even these simple conversations can get quite relaxing and funny at times. Perhaps, this is what small talk is about: relaxing and having fun!

Another tip for female self defense is that, women should always follow their intuition to stay safe. If your gut tells you that something about a situation is wrong do not hesitate to act. Discomfort and fear are intuitive messages that might indicate that you are unsafe. Recognize the red flag for danger early enough to increase your safety. Most female victims of attacks have confessed of having ignored their intuition prior to the attack. Do not fear that you might appear as if you are overreacting or paranoid. Your safety should always come first. For instance you should yell and quickly run way from a man who walks quickly to catch up with you in an empty parking lot. Do not assume that he wants to ask the time.

Keeping guard and being ware is one of the tips to use for female self defense. Activities of the day take us to different places but wherever you are be ware. Be conscious about your surroundings. For instance while you are walking back to your vehicle alone, walk upright with your head held up high to enable you to scan your surroundings. Identify any hiding place for attackers and also any escape route if of an attack. Always think in terms of prevention. Avoid dark, secluded areas at all costs. If you are not feeling safe, be bold to ask the security staff to escort you to your vehicle since it is their work. To remain safe in areas where you rub shoulders with the public, avoid dressing provocatively or carrying expressive jewelry.

Among the female self defense tips is always lock your house and car. Some people assume that the time spent outside the house or car is too little and locking is unnecessary. However little time you hope to spend away, ensure that you lock the car and the house. Always have your keys in your hands to stay safe to discourage attackers. Deter an attack before it begins. Most criminals target women who are talking on their cell phones since it indicates that the woman is distracted and a potential target. Do not walk around the streets with many bags and packages. Ponytail is also a hair do which is attractive to the attacker. Always carry a deterrent device or a legal weapon in your keys chain or in your hand bag.

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Confidence is faith in your own ability… and confidence can determine whether or not you will succeed in achieving your goal.

One of the major stumbling blocks to achieving your goal, living your dream, doing anything you want to do in your life… is a lack of confidence!

When people have confidence, they consistently take action and make necessary changes, they get results and achieve their goals.

When people lack confidence, however, they get stuck and they remain stuck. They may have the same ability and skills as a person with confidence, but because they lack confidence they don’t easily take action towards their goals.

Having confidence is essential to achieving your goals and living your dreams.

You may have the knowledge and skills to do something, you may have all your goals and action steps written out, you may have everything in place to go ahead and achieve your goal… live your dream… start doing the things that you want to do in your life.

You may have everything right ready to put into action… but without confidence, without confidence in your ability to do this and to achieve it… you won’t get very far.

People who lack confidence typically:

– are very shy

– have difficulties relating to other people

– have difficulties in communicating with people they don’t know very well

– rely on alcohol to give them “dutch courage” to do something

– don’t get very far in their career

– don’t take many risks

– settle for the sameness rather than different experiences

I don’t know about you, but I have a problem with my confidence. I know I lack confidence in some areas of my life… and it is in these areas I’m not achieving the kind of results I would like. I’m a whole lot better than I used to be when I was younger… but I know I have quite a way to go yet before I have a strong confidence in me.

Lacking confidence now in your life, doesn’t mean that you will always lack confidence. Your confidence is something you can work on. You can learn techniques that will not only develop your confidence but strengthen it… and when your confidence is strengthened, you begin to achieve more in your life. You can confidently go for opportunities that come your way… and not only go for them, but enjoy them and achieve them.

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If you are one of the many people who has begun to think about what lies ahead for you, it’s time to begin to look toward doing something about it. The choices you make now and in the future will determine how well you will stand up to the perils of life as you approach your senior years. By taking the time to learn some ways you can improve your life now can help you live longer and healthier.

Eating a Healthier Diet

Most of us are guilty of not eating foods that are good for our health. We develop poor eating habits at an early age, and we tend to put off making changes that will improve our well being. We may make small changes when the need for losing weight is important or during a time when certain foods may take a tool on the way we feel, but it takes something major for us to really make a change in the way we eat. The problem is that quite often by the time we make the decision to make changes, it’s too late for them to make a difference. We must begin early in life to develop healthy eating habits, and we must continue those habits through out our lives.

Develop an Exercise Routine

Exercise is an important part of remaining healthy. If you don’t have an exercise routine already, you should develop one based on your own abilities. Even if you are only able to walk around the block a few times a day, you will be doing something that is good for your body. No matter what the condition of your health may be it’s important to exercise on a regular basis. Aerobic exercises such as walking, swimming, skiing, and bicycling are best, and you want to perform your routine long enough to increase your heart rate.

Reduce Stress

Stress is always an important issue, but as we get older, it begins to take a greater toll on our health. It’s important to learn to reduce stress levels before they cause severe health problems, and the best time to do that is when you are still young enough to fight the impulse to allow stress to consume you. Even every day conditions such as asthma, allergies, and even colds and hay fever can be caused by stress. Stress can cause the immune system to break down, and when that happens, it is ripe for many different conditions and illnesses.

Maintain a Proper Weight

In order to stay healthy, you need to keep your weight within normal range. If you are overweight, you will have less energy and thus be unable to exercise or even do household chores. Excess weight also puts a strain on your heart and makes you more likely to have a heart attack. Of course, maintaining a proper weight falls in directly with the other methods of developing a healthy lifestyle since you need to exercise and eat healthy foods in order to maintain a proper weight. Since many people have a tendency to overeat when they are under stress, keeping that in control can also help you keep your weight within normal range. Although some recent evidence suggests that being up to 10% overweight is healthier than being 10% underweight, it is healthier to be as close to a normal range as possible.

Making the choice to change your lifestyle is essential if you want to live a healthy and pain free lifestyle. There is no substitute for healthy living, and healthy living comes from making lifestyle changes that affect your complete body and mind. Only by making those important changes can you expect to live a normal, healthy life into your golden years.

Marie Watson writes weight loss, diet plan, health, beauty and general well-being articles for the Slim Eazy website at http://www.slimeazy.com

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Ironically, there are not many people that actually believe this sort of ‘dream’ life is possible. Most people are realistic enough to know this. Yet, we strive for more. We’re typically discontent with our lot.

I’ve commented on Avril Lavigne’s songs before. Her song “Anything But Ordinary,” off the hit album “Let Go,” says so much about the frustration of life, and the anguish and torment, not to mention the boredom of it, we deal with under the surface in everyday life:

Is it enough to love?
Is it enough to breath?
Somebody rip my heart out
And leave me here to bleed
Is it enough to die?
Somebody save my life
I’d rather be anything but ordinary please

To walk within the lines
Would make my life so boring
I want to know that I
Have been to the extreme
So knock me off my feet
Come on now give it to me
Anything to make me feel alive

It’s a statement of discontent. Its problem is life itself. Is life “enough?” Is it enough to experience the absolute pinnacle of life? i.e. love. Is it enough to go through life simply breathing, or ‘complying’ with life’s demands and rules-is it good enough? Ordinary things, and even extraordinary things, like love, don’t seem enough at times. Is it enough to die; rather be dead than ordinary? Please? What about ‘extremes.’ Some people, and particularly the young, need to go to the extremes to ‘taste’ life, the life that’s not so boring; to break up the tedium.

There has to be more to life, surely! There has to be something to put our hope in; something more to stimulate us. There must be some rational and real purpose to it all. And there is. It’s right under our nose and so very obvious, yet we don’t see it because it doesn’t appear interesting enough.

I’m suggesting that the ordinary life; my plain and ordinary life, is so uniquely special, just being alive and thinking about all the possibilities is on its own, simply breathtaking. The fact that I am ‘here’ typing this article, communicating to you, and able to speak to myself and think and create, is simply marvelous. Why do I think this way?

The above paragraph is not an overstatement. We live at the very cusp of time: the present. We have the power to create history; in fact, whether we like it or not, that is exactly what we are doing in the present.

Oswald Chambers says, “Drudgery is the touchstone of character… There are times when there is no… thrill, but just the daily round, the common task…. Do not expect God always to give you His thrilling minutes, but learn to live in the domain of drudgery by the power of God.”[1]

Drudgery is not a very exciting word; in fact it is quite ghastly. The point is you and your life: it is a gift from God. He gives it to you so you can discover your life purpose, something each one of us has to discover for his or her own. That purpose will drive us through life giving us power to create loving relationships so we can leave our legacy on life.

You can have any ordinary life you want. You may as well; you’ll be stuck doing it forty hours a week for most of the rest of your life, so you might as well enjoy it! I can honestly say I’ve not had “Mondayitis” for the past fifteen years, which equates to 60 percent of my work life. I love work, and I also love rest. What about you? Do you look forward to your life… your work… time with your family?

Life is drudgery most of the time, so get over it and start living it. Be present one moment at a time. Things will change gradually. You’ll begin to love what you have. It’s great!

© Steve J. Wickham, 2008. All rights reserved Worldwide.

[1] Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest (New York: Dodd, Mead, 1935), 167, June 15 entry, cited in Ellen Vaughn’s Radical Gratitude: Discovering Joy Through Everyday Thankfulness, (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan, 2005), p. 173.

Steve Wickham is a safety and health professional (BSc) and a qualified Christian minister (GradDipDiv). His passion in vocation is facilitation and coaching; encouraging people to soar to a higher value of their potential. Steve’s key passion is work / life balance and re-creating value for living, and an exploration of the person within us. His highest goal is doing God’s will, in enhancing his life, and the lives of others.

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Being in business for myself for 30 years and being the proverbial ‘one man band’ tends to guide you into your own little world of perfection. It’s my way or no way. Branding yourself like that just kind of sneaks up on you. It doesn’t have to be a business of one. It could be a husband, wife, parent or child. When you do it your way and shun suggestions of maybe doing it another way because you already know the best way, has only infested you negatively and you know it to be true. You do it to the point of it causing a ’stun gun’ effect on yourself. A self inflicted shot in the foot, if you will. Paralyzing you and refusing to admit your stubborn shortcomings, no matter what the subject.

So, let’s pretend for a moment that you are not perfect in your own little world of control. And for a fact you already know that nobody else is perfect either. Ah, what a comfort in knowing that out of all those you know, you are the most perfect. Ouch, there you go again categorizing yourself as above the norm.

Realize that if surroundings and all that are in them were perfect, there would be no growth, no challenges to improve and experiment with life’s choices. You might as well take hammer and nail and build a perfect coffin and lay yourself down to sleep in it.

You are never alone unless you choose to be. That’s your choice. Thankfully very few think that being a loner is the perfect answer to control and happiness. We are built to interact, tell stories, share heartaches, comfort others as they comfort you in time of stressful needs. But the most positive of life’s experiences is to share the positive moments and actions and successes. It makes you feel good to share them and it makes the other person or persons feel uplifted, inspired and happy to know you and your personality and the fact that they are not much different than you.

So we have admitted, even out loud, “I’m not perfect anymore!” I’ve always known it, but now at this time of my life it’s a sure bet. So what do I do? What am I actually admitting?

As an official Baby Boomer Generation groupie and a long time one man band, I’ve opened myself up more to business networking associations and am appreciating the business building efforts of a diversity of talents within my affiliations. Growing a business with a passion for others to grow in their desires to have a small home based business and then being the receiver of emotional and financial rewards for my efforts doesn’t seem fair.

It’s the principle of “Help others get what they desire and in return get more of what you desire. Am I being selfish? If helping others while helping yourself is selfish, then I’m guilty. Seeking my personal pleasures in this special time of life while helping others to seek and find their personal pleasures in wanting a home based business and then finding it because of what I do. That’s ironic, isn’t it? We were born with that desire but some of us have suppressed it for any number of reasons. If you suffer from the fear of not being perfect anymore by not being perfect anymore, get over it and get on with living. After all, the world isn’t perfect you know.

Recently I opened up an association that I closed off about 12 years ago. I never burned that bridge and Dec. 31st an individual walked across that bridge and just a few short weeks later my enthusiasm for a new product and business model in helping others while I’m helping myself has emerged. I am practicing what I preach. A simple message with a less than perfect solution yet a ground swelling foundation to build a more imperfect world that just may become a more perfect association for helping you while helping others. Huh? Not being perfect is bliss.

Brooke Folk

Brooke Folk is a 30 year home based business owner who has a passion for helping others find a small business of their own. His HomeBusinessDepot.com website has a small selection of endorsed business offerings with BusinessCard NoteCards, his personal creation and business offering being the chief cornerstone that started it all. Brooke also is the host of The Home Business Depot Radio program as well as Mangosteen Power Hour Radio on TalkShoe.chom Brooke also authored his first short story “The Blue Goose and The Mystery House” that has opened new associations for sharing.

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But I made a decision as I sat down to write this article, that I was not going to give in to it. I splashed some water on my face, brushed and flossed (and swished), put on some fresh clothes, and I immediately started to feel better.

Amazing. It has been raining for about 7 straight days - unheard of here in sunny California. People move here to escape this gloom-inducing weather. So, that’s why we have to be proactive when blahs hit us.

Of course it does not have to be the weather that turns our mood dark. Any number of things can trigger it. The good part is, we can do something about it. Besides the “freshening up” steps I mentioned previously, here are some other ideas you might want to consider:

* Go to the bookstore and browse your favorite section

* Eat a piece of fresh fruit

* Pick up your favorite book from the shelf and start reading

* Go online and find a friendly and interesting forum - participate

* Stand in front of the mirror, and smile

* Try on some clothes that you haven’t worn in a long time

* Take a trip to Goodwill with some goodies that you found

* Look up an old friend on Google and contact them

* Put on a fun piece of music and dance

* Write yourself a love letter

* Make up your own list of fun things to do and share it with others

These are just a few things. I purposefully picked stuff you could do if it was raining non-stop. If it’s clear outside, that opens up a whole slew of other fun opportunities to lift your spirit.

If you are still feeling lethargic, go to a room where it’s quiet and you won’t be disturbed. Sit in a comfortable place and be still. Allow your troubled thoughts to linger, until they slowly drift away. Concentrate on going inside yourself. Picture a comforting fire burning inside of you. The warmth touches you in a way that melts any troublesome energy that may be present. All that is left is a smoldering, burning passion.

You begin to feel not only positive, but more alive then you have felt in a long time. When you open your eyes, move your fingers and toes and feel the electricity cursing through you. Smile, and know that you can recharge any time you are feeling low - complements of our inner source - our warmest and closest ally.

Kim McGinnis is a freelance writer and entrepreneur. Visit her at her most recent blog, Be Like Nature: http://www.belikenature.com

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